right. She is obsessed with what people think of her, which shapes every interaction she has with others. Her personal mantra is “What’s in it for me?” She is critical and judgmental, seldom giving anyone the benefit of the doubt. But when Pamela talks with you, she portrays herself as one who suffers deeply. She talks of feeling constantly rejected and alone. She is mystified that people find her intimidating. She feels like no one respects her opinion. What is going on with Pamela? Are all her